For the 100th time, Attachment Theory is overgeneralized… It does a decent job of categorizing people into boxes and explaining patterns, but it doesn’t really account for anomalies. Some avoidants can’t commit to a third date, others stay in the same marriage for their entire lives. It’s more about the depths of their trauma, their coping mechanisms, the relationship dynamic, and their partner. You can make things work with anyone if you meet their needs… But their needs could very well be dist