My daughter has high needs…and also zero outside caregivers. It’s just my husband and I 24 hours per day, 7 days per week, 365 days per year. Just us three against the world. So date nights? Those are a family function these days. But here’s the really tricky part—remember those high needs? My daughter cannot sit in a high chair or any other form of containment. She stays in our laps the entire dinner, alternating between each parent so we can take turns eating. If one of us has a particularly e